Crazy Kids






Do you ever have one of those days where you just feel like the absolute worst mother in the world? Well, I have felt like that for a few days (maybe even weeks). I don't know what was up. I kept feeling like I was losing my cool just about every second with my kids of every day. Maybe it was me, maybe it was them or maybe it was an extremely bad combination. I just felt like all my efforts to discipline were just being exhausted and I found myself sitting alone in my bathroom a lot lately trying to count to 10 and take deep breaths. However, after talking to a friend recently, I felt like maybe I wasn't just enjoying my kids as much as I should be. Maybe I was too focused on getting "stuff" done instead of focusing my attention on just my kids. So, this past week, I put the endless list of stuff down and just got down on the floor to play. I can't say much of the acting out has stopped, but I did realize that my sympathy and patience was a bit stronger. So, this post is to my awesome kids who I love uncontrollably. Thank you for teaching mom to stop and enjoy the moments.

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Cheryl said…
What a great mom you are! One of these days, I really hope I can be like you! I still haven't had the self control to put down my list and just play. I know my house would be a much better place if I did!
Play! NEVER, work, work, work, that was my philosophy and that's why you think you have to do it. What do mother's know anyway? Grandmother's are so much smarter!
Thanks for sharing that! I need that reminder too. I remember when we first got our house and the long list of things that needed to be done, etc. Unfortunately it doesn't seem like my list has gotten any shorter, and our house is a mess and I feel like I still lose my patience so much. I need to take that time too to get down and play with my kids. Thanks again for the reminder. :) When I saw the pics of your kids all messy, my thought was man I wish I had the patience to let me kids do things like that (instead of just thinking, I have no desire to clean up that mess). :) You are an AWESOME MOMMY!